Dating a man 10 years older than me blocked from updating windows
Not long after we took a road trip to California together, said “I love you” for the first time on Valentine’s day and the rest…it’s not so distant history.
Initially when we met I completely ruled out the idea of dating him.
It wasn’t because I wasn’t attracted to him (I was!
At first people would ask me if our age difference was bothersome, if it was difficult and/or how it affected our relationship.
I would roll my eyes and scoff that it didn’t make difference other than that Jordan was more established in his life and career.
Occasionally Jordan will talk about buying a house, in Seattle the housing market is quite high, and though I know it is realistic for early twenty somethings in other parts of the country to invest in property, in the Seattle metro area it is quite likely you’ll be renting through your mid twenties if you want to live in the city.
Jordan and I can both daydream about purchasing a house or condo, however, his ambitions are rooted in reality while mine seem like an idea for the distant future.
It helps that I am “), but I’ve learned a few lessons that transcend my relationship and apply to anyone dating someone outside of the realm of “someone they could have known in high school” (that is plus or minus three years).
Common differences you’re likely to encounter when your Partner is five or more years older than you: While I’m debating whether or not I should pack lunch for work to save money instead of buying a sandwich at the grocery store deli, my boyfriend is eating out at “real” sit down restaurants each day.
When we first met it was a minor adjustment, in the initial dating period it didn’t matter at all, and now that we’re settled into a serious and committed relationship the difference is more substantial.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating